5 Woulda-Coulda-Shoulda Financial Tips I learned the Hard Way

Broke Girl

I always did well in my studies (cough, except math) and far exceeded in the area of common sense. One arena I did struggle in however, was a lesson I wasn’t taught by a book or from my parents. Finance, unfortunately, was learned in the school of hard knocks.

I have a mortgage, but not the kind of mortgage that gets you swept through the threshold or one that gets you a house warming party. Instead, I consider my student loans a form of mortgage—and yes there will be a celebration party, but at the end of the duration. Because I wasn’t classified as needing government assistance and was looking at paying for the whole tamale myself, I found myself in that awkward situation—the 11 year-old who isn’t quite ready for junior wear but too big for Osh Gosh. I was forced to take out private loans myself with twice the interest rate as my fellow classmates.

Lesson One) Interest rates matter. My 6.5% student loan rate will end up costing me the equivalent to what could have been another year of education. I can’t stress enough the importance of shopping around for a better rate. If you have a Visa card with an 18% rate and you’re not paying it off every month—PAY IT OFF. I don’t recommend tossing the card, as that could actually hurt your credit as well, but at least call up your provider and see if they can do anything about lowering the rate for you.

Lesson Two) Don’t have store type credit cards. I used to think my Victoria’s Secret credit card and Paypal card were the greatest thing since sliced bread—moldy carb-infested bread. Having multiple store credit lines (think Target, Best Buy, etc) will actually hurt you in the long-run. If you’re looking to build credit, simply open the standard type Visa or American Express, but again, look at the interest rates. Banana Republic might offer you 10% off your purchase if you open a card, but is saving $6.74 on a few sweaters and a pair of flats really worth hurting your credit for the next ten years?

Lesson Three) Save for retirement. This might be the most important financial tip I can give, and one of the biggest problems our government shall face in the upcoming years. Not saving for retirement, and starting early at that, will cripple your financial future. Americans are living longer and our generation will be the first to live well into their hundreds. If you are planning to retire at 65 (or if you’re like me, 45) seriously consider what it is going to take to create the amount of wealth for you to live comfortably for 40 years. Are you doing the math in your head? Odds are you are falling a little short. So do yourself a favor while you can and SAVE. If your employer is offering a match and you are not taking advantage of it then you are a fool. SAVE and then SAVE some more.

Lesson Four) The 401(k) is only as good as the employer match. If you are taking advantage of your employer’s retirement plan and they are nice enough to give you a little extra something then wonderful—you are a lucky soul, take full advantage of it. BUT, if you’re aimlessly putting money into a 401(k) above and beyond what an employer is giving you, you might want to consider speaking with a financial advisor. The 401(k), along with other government qualified plans, have limitations that many other types of investment vehicles do not. For instance, if you’ve been contributing to an IRA for 15 years (let’s say you’ve amassed $70k for this example’s sake) and then BOOM, your car gets struck by lightning. You need emergency cash and you decide to take $40k out of your IRA to purchase a new SUV….Uh oh. You’re going to get nailed with a 10% penalty for withdrawing the government’s money (yes, the government’s money) pre-maturely. One cannot withdraw money from an IRA prior to age 59 ½ without a 10% penalty. That is just one of many limitations you’ll face with an IRA account. In today’s world, there are so many types of investment opportunities (with an array of risk allocation and yield averages) that you should not limit yourself to just an IRA plan. Diversify.

Lesson Five) ROTH it, ROTH it good. If you are going to set up an IRA, might I suggest that Roth is the way to go. With a Roth, you will have to pay taxes on the money upfront (not deferred like a regular IRA) so I know what you’re immediately thinking…Why pay a tax today when I can pay it tomorrow. My rebuttal to that statement: why not pay a low tax now instead of paying a high tax later. Contrary to belief, we are at one of the lowest tax rates in history, and I like many, believe that taxes are only going one way… UP. So if you’re like me, and you too believe taxes are going up, why not pay the lower amount now opposed to the ridiculous rates we’re going to see in the future? *Note: If you’re contemplating a Roth conversion, seek guidance from your accountant first!

Although I’ve hit a few financial bumps in the road, I’ve luckily been blessed with a good job, ambition and a support system that has encouraged me to become financially savvy and dig myself out of my one-time hole. It doesn’t take much to stay on top of your finances, but it doesn’t take much to fall either. The key is to stay on top of it…and not buy too many shoes. I encourage all of you to never stop learning about how you can improve your individual situation. With that said, I also encourage all of you to donate to my “mortgage.”  It’s for a great financial cause after all. Wink-wink.

Patio Perfect

Patio Furniture

When Leonardo Dicaprio noted in Inception that an “idea is like a virus,” he was right. This concept, tied to the determination of a woman with a design project and a credit card, is an understatement.

Before & After

Randomly, I decided that Kevin and I needed a new patio set. Though we were doing just fine without one, I had convinced myself we couldn’t go another weekend without one. Not wanting to upset his woman and her virus, Kevin too decided he was convinced. I browsed online. I perused stores. I flipped through catalogs. I was obsessed at finding the perfect patio arrangement.

I decided on teak—a certain color of teak that would seat at least six. Preferably, mission-style teak with a particular deep-rich-red stain that sat six while accompanying a matching bench. Let’s just say, I knew exactly what I wanted and I was going to get it.

Since we weren’t about to spend the two grand it was going to cost to purchase a new set, I spent weeks patrolling Craigslist for exactly what I desired. Finally, she appeared. A two-year old World Market teak beauty with matching Pottery Barn Umbrella, for the bargain price of $300. She needed obvious love and I was going to give it to her.

Holy Hell. Have you ever refinished something? The idea (deadly virus in this case) sounds thrilling, and even fun, until you’re ten hours of sanding in, have a thrown out back and are inches away from killing your significant other…who, in their defense, has done most of the work anyway. If you ever want to test your love for someone and their love for you—sand something.

I’ve tackled furniture projects before, the occasional desk or dresser, but a table, four chairs and a bench included, takes a particularly patient individual. As beautiful as my patio set turned out, this project was certainly a life lesson. Though artistic, refinishing furniture is not for the faint of heart… nor the lazy. I am very proud of my lovely teak furniture and have enjoyed it immensely—I will for years. I do, however, imagine our next patio set will be store-bought, full priced and completely blood-sweat-and-tearless.

Products:
Navy/Teal Honeycomb Pillows: Etsy, Landofpillowsdotcom
Teal/White Geometric Seat Cushions: Target

Going Nude

Nude Fashion

I’ve long been a sufferer of whether to wear black or brown. There are certain outfits, where, let’s face it, neither gets the job done. I’m sure some of you remember the story of the homeless lady outside of Starbucks pointing out that my black pumps conflicted with my blue sheath dress—You know you’re doing something wrong when a crazy bag lady without shoes calls you out as a fashion faux pas.

Thankfully, a neutral, neutral is popping up everywhere. Nude, buff, peach, tan, whatever you chose to call it, is my new go-to for shoes and accessories alike. I’ve lined my closet with a nude shoe for every occasion and even splurged on a nude leather banded Burberry watch which I wear almost daily.

The absolute best part about going nude, aside from it going with everything, is the illusion it gives you—You’ll have legs for days! And if you’re like me, vertically challenged, this is a nice alternative to joint extension surgery.

Also, for you penny pinchers, if you find a style you like, keep your eyes peeled for knock-off versions of the good stuff. I recently stumbled across a pair of Calvin Klein Vivian wannabes at Target for ¼ the price!

Who Wants a Pink Mustache Ride?!

Lyft Ride Service

Over the last few months, I’ve noticed that there has been a local trend in automobile hood ornaments. Cars all over Southern Cal have adorned themselves in pink, fluffy and ridiculously adorable pink mustaches. Being drawn to all things pink and fluffy, I was immediately intrigued. Was it a Movember-meets-Breast-Cancer-awareness stache? Did Hot Topic have a sale on overstocked novelty whiskers? Just what were these pink mustachios?

Every now and again comes a product or service that I’ll feel the need to shout from the mountain tops—Lyft is that service. The new trend in public transportation are side-car services—think of them as freelance taxi cabs. Instead of hailing a cabi that smells like curry and speaks as much English as a San Diego radio station, you’re essentially given a flipbook of pre-background checked Hipster type drivers which allows you to “get to know” your transporter (and what you’re being transported in) before they even pick you up. If you don’t like the look, rating, car type or maybe even the name of the driver you’re given, simply flip to a new one! The entire service, from requesting a cab to payment, is handled via one of the friendliest apps you can download—so simple even an Amanda can use it. Lyft is easy-to-use, stylish (I mean, they wear pink mustaches, people!) and best of all, it’s cheap! On average, I save about 25% using Lyft when compared to that of a normal taxi cab. Because Lyft is a contract/freelance service, you’re not charged the embedded cost of all the intricacies it takes to run a major cab conglomerate—ultimately putting that money back in your pocket.

I am sure there are people out there that will continue to use regular cabs, either because they prefer it, because Lyft type services are not offered in their area or, unlike myself, simply prefer their transportation shaven. But one thing is for sure, I am quite happy with the entire experience that Lyft offers. Everything from their App, the drivers, the rating service, to the water bottles they give you during your ride has been top-notch. So if you’re looking for something new or a way to save a few more pennies this year, try Lyft. I promise this is one mustache ride you won’t regret tomorrow morning.

Spring is in the Air So Why Not Enjoy It?

Spring Picnic

Kevin and I finally had a weekend to ourselves without the hub-bub and commotion of friends, family, and constant travel. It’s not that we don’t like the go-go-go and adventures, in fact we live for it, but every once and awhile you just crave your own home, a glass of wine and the “How’s it going at work?” kind of conversation. For the first time in two months, were able to do exactly that.

While Kevin worked on one of his many inventions in the man cave, I prepped artichokes, sangria and one of my staples—bruschetta. I had never made the first two prior, but I’ve been hooked on bruschetta since the first time I tasted it in Italy. No wonder I’m hooked.

I looked up multiple recipes for Sangria, came away with the basic knowledge needed to prepare it and pulled my typical, “I got this” approach. Truth be told, all you really need is a bottle of wine (or three, like Kevin and I used) some white grape juice (half a cup per bottle should do you just fine) soda water (also half a cup) and a bunch of fresh fruit. I used strawberries, raspberries and granny smith apples for my fruit. Also, as much as I drink wine, the type of wine most sangria recipes recommended was foreign to me. Viognier, (pronounced VEE-un-yay) isn’t something you’ll find much variety of in your standard grocery store. After doing my homework, I discovered it was more mellow than a Chardonnay and less acidic than a Sauvignon Blanc (sad face.) So I met in the middle and used Pinot Grigio as the substitute.

Steaming artichokes was certainly a new experience and one I’m glad I just didn’t wing. I purchased my artichokes without any knowledge of what I was looking for—picture me in a super market going through a bin of artichokes, lulling over the “perfect” ones when in reality I haven’t got a clue. So make sure to read up on the entire process, buying and cooking, before you delve into this culinary adventure. I recommend a recipe I found on Simply Recipes by Elise Bauer: http://www.simplyrecipes.com/recipes/how_to_cook_and_eat_an_artichoke/

Have you made sangria or steamed artichokes before? Be sure to tell me how many bottles of wine (and what kind) you used and what sauce you paired your artichokes with! P.S. I used a whipped garlic-parm heavy cream mixture.

The Bitch is Back

Elton JohnSaturday, my company was lucky enough to snag tickets to Elton John’s debut concert at the Colosseum at Caesars Palace in Las Vegas. Like many greats before him (think Celine Deon, people) Elton, from this moment forward, will call Caesar’s his new performing home. Although never a huge Elton Fan, I think everyone can agree that this concert is a bucket-list type of concert. Twenty years from now, I’ll be able to tell my kids that I’ve seen Sir Elton John live…and they will roll their eyes and care less just as I cared less when my mom talked wide-eyed of Janis Joplin. Like me, my kids will learn and someday appreciate.

Granted, I don’t know all of Elton’s songs, and I’m not going to pretend as though I do, but luckily his set list was one that I, and even Kevin, could move along to:

  1. The Bitch Is Back 
  2. Bennie and the Jets 
  3. Rocket Man
  4. Levon 
  5. Tiny Dancer 
  6. Your Song 
  7. Mona Lisas and Mad Hatters 
  8. Better Off Dead 
  9. Indian Sunset 
  10. Blue Eyes 
  11. Goodbye Yellow Brick Road 
  12. I Guess That’s Why They Call It the Blues 
  13. Philadelphia Freedom 
  14. Don’t Let the Sun Go Down on Me 
  15. Hey Ahab 
  16. I’m Still Standing 
  17. Crocodile Rock 
  18. Saturday Night’s Alright for Fighting 

And for the Encore (drum roll….) 19. Circle of Life. Kevin whispered to me about half-way through the song that he wasn’t sure if he recognized it to which I responded, “What?! You’ve never seen the Lion King?!” I bet you can guess what we did when we got home on Sunday…

I’ve never been in the Vega’s Colosseum before (Rome’s, yes) but I can easily say that this quickly became my favorite venue. The décor and architecture is gorgeous and it’s really quite intimate, not like the gigantic, crowded, a monster-truck-rally-was-featured-the-night-before, type of auditorium that I am used to. Elton couldn’t quite hit the high notes we were hoping for, but for 67, he could certainly still pull off sequins and Rocketman, and let’s face it, that’s what you’re really in it for.

Mom & Dad, Meet San Diego

Sailing TripNow that I’ve been in California now for a little over a year, it was time to invite the parents out. I think they’ve been eager to see what I’ve done with my life (since it has been a dramatic change from the old one) and I, well, have just missed having them around.

They arrived on Wednesday (my dad’s birthday) and we took it easy. I had cooked up a storm the night before (ribs, tri-tip, garlic mashed red skins, asparagus, scratch creamed-corn and my household famous cornbread) and enjoyed it with a few beers and cocktails before bringing out the candle lit red velvet cheesecake—compliments of Cheesecake Factory.

Thursday, they first full day, was booked to the nines with a lot of “firsts” for all of us. Mom and dad finally got a tour of my office (my first real big girl office) and experienced first-hand what the fuss has been about—my view. Ocean, skyscrapers, and my completely stocked snack drawer. Their daughter is a city girl.

The tour was followed by San Diego’s seaport Village (which I find completely adorable) lined with knick-knack shops and eateries. I had my eye on a mint colored Roxy flop hat and I think dad could tell I wasn’t keen on spending the money on it. He snatched it out of my hands, ran it over to the counter and before I knew it, said darling sun hat was all mine. I rocked that Roxy hat the rest of the day—and plan to follow suit all summer (just bought a new bikini at Nordstrom’s to match that little hat, but that’s another story…)

Back to Thursday… My dad’s side of the family has always been Navy so we made sure to see the USS Midway. This carrier is located seconds from my office but this was my first tour as well. I found it very interesting for one major reason—this ship sailed at the same time as my grandfather, Dan Schremser. It was nice to be able to visualize something that was such a big part of his life.

Following the Midway was my favorite part of the vacation—a surprise sailing adventure around the bay. I, like my parents, had never sailed before, and knew it was the perfect San Diego experience for them. We saw seals, dolphins, submarines, an ocean sunset and the bottom of a few too many bud light cans. Sailing was followed by a four course fondue dinner…and more drinks.

We continued the rest of the weekend with more exciting adventures. Mom and dad took a day to themselves and went up to Carlsbad to see the flower fields and an even better view of the ocean. Saturday, dad was finally able to see the John Wayne star, the Hollywood sign and Beverly Hills (and I was able to take a picture with Jennifer Aniston’s star!) We continued eating our way through Sunday with a champagne brunch (Kevin and I showed mom and dad how we do mimosas) and explored the San Diego zoo. Mom and dad surprised me with a stuffed Otter, to which I named Otto who has since taken Kevin’s place as the little spoon in our bed.

The night was topped off with a Kip Moore/Lady Antebellum concert—lovely outdoor venue, sprawled out on rented lawn chairs (Thanks, Kev!) drinking more beer and snuggled in blankets. All in all, a wonderful end to a perfect vacation.

The only part of our trip that wasn’t perfect was the absence of my little brother. We even agreed as a group we couldn’t visit Lego Land without him. BUT, I know there will be a next time—hopefully he’ll get to experience it with my parents next year when they come out!

Stinkfist and Pearls

ToolDon’t get me wrong, I sometimes listen to what most consider crap music (You can hear me blaring “Party in the USA” from my car a mile away) but I must admit, unlike most chicas that share similar traits to myself (Self-proclaimed Kelly Ripas) I, all-in-all, have fantastic taste in music.

Kevin bought me the sweetest Valentine’s Day present of all time–Not a necklace that the jewelry store recommend that he buy, lame red roses or chocolates conveniently displayed near the Target checkout. This year, I was gifted tickets to a concert that I have been dying to attend since I was 16. Happy Valentine’s Day, Tool tickets.

I had the opportunity to see Perfect Circle in Cedar Rapids about ten years ago, and even though they are one of my favorite bands, there is just something special about Tool.

So last weekend, I put away the shift dresses and pearls, grabbed some holy black jeans and a couple 40s and we put my Valentine’s day present to use. Maynard, in Mohawk, did not disappoint. If ever there was a Lyrical God, it is Maynard James Keenan. Schism took me back to a mindset I hadn’t experienced in years–Raw, dark and as powerful as I had hoped—a mental hideaway for misjudged youth. I’d like to see Taylor Swift get a fan’s neck hairs to stand on end like mine were last Sunday.

If you don’t listen to Tool or APC, change your mind. Listen here, to my favorite song of all time, Three Libras: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWFv5ZoVET8&feature=kp

Another good one, Sober: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hglVqACd1C8&feature=kp

Hello March!

March calendar

Spring is in the air and one of my favorite months is well underway. There is just something special about the month of March!  Not only is March my birthday month (the big 29 this year) but who doesn’t enjoy wearing party masks on Fat Tuesday, office bracket wars, welcoming the out-like-a-lamb type weather and drowning one’s liver in Guinness, celebrating the one heritage every American can agree on—thee St. Patrick’s Day.

Not only will this month be full of holiday celebrations, but we’ve managed to somehow jam pack it with other amazing activities as well. Our March, abridged:

  • Tool Concert (A very thoughtful Valentine’s Day gift from my love)
  • Our first Sailing attempt
  • USS Midway Museum
  • Hollywood (I’ve been in California for two years and have never actually been there)
  • The San Diego Zoo (again, it’s in my backyard and I’ve STILL never been there)
  • Las Vegas trip, courtesy of my company
  • Elton John Concert (SUPER excited about this one!)
  • Lady Antebellum Concert
  • Last but not least… My Birthday!

I am also very fortunate that my parents will be joining us, here in San Diego, to help experience many of these adventures. I cannot wait for them to get here and they cannot wait to start soaking up the 70 degree weather—I’m actually fairly confident that’s what they’re really coming out here to see. I’m sure it will be a “Hi, Bye, we’re going to the beach now,” kind of vacation for them. Oh, how the roles have changed…

Stay tuned for upcoming posts and photos, highlighting the sights, laughs and epic fails of our March adventures!

American Stuffed Peppers

Stuffed Pepper

Stuffed Peppers are one of the simplest, healthiest and easiest recipes I know how to make AND they are delicious. I play around with the recipe and have come up with everything from Southwestern stuffed peppers to Philly cheese-steak peppers (which, by the way, was not a bf favorite–the lead critic in my life.)

By Simply using yesterday’s leftovers or randoms from your fridge and cupboards, you should be able to craft some variation of a stuffed pepper. The pepper itself might be the one item you need to pick up.

  • Prep time: 10 minutes
  • Baking time: 30 minutes
  • Cost: $10
  • Wine pairing: Yes.

What you need (for an American stuffed pepper—depicted in photo)

  • 4 bell peppers
  • 1 can diced tomatoes (I use the Italian seasoned ones but it doesn’t matter)
  • 2-3 cups of cooked rice or quinoa
  • 1 lb. browned hamburger (feel free to mix with Italian sausage!)
  • 1 cup of preferred shredded cheese (one slice per pepper will also work)
  • Salt, pepper, other preferred seasoning

Set oven to 350. After the peppers are hollowed out, I throw them in the oven while I’m browning my hamburger and cooking my rice/quinoa (speeds up the process!) When the hamburger is cooked through, combine the diced tomatoes, rice and seasoning. Remove half-cooked peppers from oven and stuff with mixture. Top with your favorite cheese. Continue to bake for another ten minutes. Viola!

Side note—I tend to have extra stuffing left over.Not to worry—just serve it alongside your pepper. Makes for a beautiful side and I promise it won’t go to waste.